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| Here it goes...On 1-18-03 I crashed my PC,and HARD,lost a bunch of components and tried to do the self fix.No luck and had to have a pc service fix the computer,got it back today and it works GREAT! Ok,now that is a problem but one that is easily delt with.
Tuesday January 21 is a day I will never forget.I am at work and get a phone call from my brother.Mom is at the ER,didn't sound serious.I arived at the ER and was sent to her room.The Dr. said they need to sent to by helicopter to Rochester because she has a severe brain anurism and there are only 3 Dr.'s that could do the operation,(one of them is there).My father and brother decide to drive and meet mom at the hospital,I would stay with mom till she is on the 'copter and give her my support.She arived in good shape,still consious and alert.A few hours later,dad and my brother arrive and get an update,it is not looking good [:blackeye:] and getting worse! At about 4 am on 1-22-03 I get a call from the hospital,get down here NOW! I pack up a few clothes in case I have to stay overnight,pick up my sis in law and her 2 kids and proceed to drive like a mad man posessed to Rochester,get to the hospital and was forced to face reality.Mom was on life support.Her anurism was bad(about the size of a thumb nail) and in a very bad spot,she had a heart attack when the anurism blew. There was nothing the Dr.'s could do,they tried everything in their power to save her life but just wasn't meant to be.We as a family decided to "call" it at 12 noon,have the Dr.'s do the tests that need to do for brain death,and they proceeded.Out worst thoughts were realized,she was in fact dead.We also decided to follow my mothers wish and give her organs for organ donation.(Side note:we know for a fact that they transplanted 2 of her organs Thurday morning but not where or if it was a success.)
Thursday we made funeral arrangements and did all the other stuff that goes along with the funeral.The vistation was Sunday and the funeral was earlier today.
My mother was a nurse for over 35 years,she helped more people then I can ever imagine.She was also a devoted wife,mother and grandmother.Mom,you may be gone but YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!
Sorry for the sob story,I had to get it out. |
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| Paul, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost a son when he was but ten, and my mother when she was only 59. My deepest sympathy to you and the family.
The organ donation program is indeed a blessing for so many. There are 5 people who's lives were saved or quailty of life dramatically improved with the donations from my son. I am certain he is smiling, as is your Mom. |
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| This is quite a test for you and your family. If you believe in God, and I hope you do, you realize that your Mother is in a better place without worry or pain.
Our prayers are with you and your family. She sounds like a very special lady.[:halo:] |
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| Paul,
Obviously, I don't know you. But I hope I can encourage you during these sad days ahead. Healing will come...in time. I lost my 21 year old cousin to a tragic farming accident 3 years ago and 6 yrs ago a dear 35yr old friend from church (lovely wife, father of 2 boys) who died of cancer. Many others as well. My point is this. These people were at the peak of their life when we lost them. YOU KNOW WHAT THEY LEFT BEHIND? Their Legacy.....just like your Mother. She has done what God intended and left her mark on your life as well as others. Only time and good friends can help heal your loss. But what the devil intends for evil, God intends for good. That's what faith and hope is all about. Mine has only grown because of at least 2 special people God saw fit to share with me for a season. My condolences to you, friend. You are in my prayers.
sincerely, Steve |
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| Paul,
Sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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| Paul I am very sorry to hear about your loss, loosing a loved one is very tough. Time is the only healer, may god be with you and your family. May your mother always be with you, in your heart and mind forever. You are in my prayers tonight. |
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| Paul,
I hope you are hangin tough throughout this bad time. I am sure there will be an empty spot in your heart and hope your faith helps you heal. Again, I am very sorry for your loss. |
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| Paul, my deepest sympathies...I was just thinking about you the other day as I watched some RANGERS receive medals they so richly deserved on the news, and realized I hadn't seen you post recently. She gave her life for others, just as you also would have done for others. Hang tight, brother in arms, we are here for you, any day or any night, let us know...RANGERS LEAD THE WAY [:blackeye:] |
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| Paul, I feel the great loss for you and your family. I lost my mom to cancer when she was 52 years old. I still think of her a lot even though that was over 20 years ago. I do not think of her suffering with the cancer any longer. Only remember and think about the good stuff. She was a wonderful lady. Hang in there bud and use your friends & family for strength & support. Let us all know if there is anything we can do. |
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| Our thoughts are with you... hang in there. I was a witness to the miracle of organ transplants. A very close friend of my oldest daughter needed a liver or she would not have lived another year. While the thought will never replace your loss, your mother may very well have saved someone who was also loved.
Craig |
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| Paul, I am really sorry to hear about your loss. She sounds like a great woman and even in death she has given life to others. Catch some big muskie this year in her honor. |
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| Paul,
God does has a plan and all though it may be hard understand, his plan has a purpose. My prayers are with you and your family during this time. |
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| Paul,
I couldn't even imagine..........Sorry to hear about your loss. Hang in there. Her face is shining down upon you.
God bless. |
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| Paul,Ill pray for you and your family things will be tuff for a few days but after that it will be better. |
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| My sincere condolences. My prayers are with you and your family.
Rob |
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| Paul,
Very sad indeed. A piece of her will always live in your heart..................................RAZE........ |
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| Paul,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family, I'm very glad to hear that your family decided on organ donation, because "Heaven knows we need them here." It's one of the toughest decisions that we ask a family to make shortly after their loss. Take care.
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| Paul,
I am deeply saddened by your loss, even though I don't know you. I do know, there isn't another group of guys who care more, than the muskie fraternity. One of our brothers is hurting, and we want to help lessen that burden.
We'll all be praying for you and your family through this trying time. Your mother blessed you, and in turn, you can do the same for others.
Sincerely,
Donnie Hunt [:blackeye:] |
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| Paul- My heartfelt condolances to you and your family. My prayers are with you during your time of grief. I know firsthand the pain of having to give the doctors the permission to disconnect the life support on someone you love so dearly. God Bless your family in coping with this sudden loss.
Al |
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| Paul,
God is with you and your family, and know that your mom is with Him, now. Our prayers will be with you and your family in your time of sorrow. Time will heal, my friend, but until then, know that we are here for you. If there is anything we can do, please lean on us. |
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| Paul...
Very sorry for your loss..[:blackeye:] I am here as a friend if you want to talk or just want to have breakfast with someone... Can't imagin, I am very close to my Mom as well.
Peace and Strength to you my friend.
Mark
Home 836-7463
Work 834-1213
Cell 579-7463
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| Although your Mother was taken from you so suddenly, I am sure you have many great memories. Some times it takes the loss of some one we love to really appreciate those around us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Craig Niermann |
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| Sorry to hear of your lost Paul, our prayers will be with you.
You know she is in a better place right now and pain free. |
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| Paul,
No words can help that hollow feeling you have inside right now. I went through the same thing two weeks ago with my Dad, we lost him at the age of 58 to cancer. The only thing that is getting me through is remembering all the good things and times we shared, and a strong faith to realize that even though we may not understand it there is a reason for their passing.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. |
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| Hang in there and sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers. |
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| Paul:
Very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts,
Doug Johnson |
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| Paul I'm very sorry to here of your loss. I lost both my Mother and Father in a two year span and it was very hard to take. |
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| Paul-
I can't even imagine what you or your family have gone through. I still have my parents and hopefully will for years. My mother is also a nurse, has been 30 years, and has also helped countless others too.
I know it must be hard for you, but be proud of the fact that your mothers passing and subsequent organ donations has made other families happy. What I'm trying to say is that if she had to go, when she did she helped someone else yet again.
Remember the good times and keep her thoughts close to your heart.
You and your family will be in our prayers. May the hurt and sorrow pass quickly leaving room for fond memories and happiness.
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